Budaiya
No matter what, there will always be two sides to a coin. Have we been fair when listening to both sides of the stories ? Have we made the right decisions, or form an opinion ? Have we been biased in our decision just because one party is your wife; your ex girlfriend..or someone that you have to pleased or carry a favour; indebted perhaps ? Or your rice bowl depends on it ?
I shall leave it to those concerned, if they can sleep at night knowing that they have been unfair to some.
5 comments:
The simple short answer is No. The two sides of a coin theory are rather difficult. If you think about two sides of a slice of bread is quite simple. You just spread some butter on both sides of the bread. Voila you have a treat for that day!! However, to choose a head or a tail is rather difficult. Not many people want to be in that position because sometimes you are getting yourself being a rodent or a cockroach. Rodent? You know where it will end-up – somewhere in one of the pipes and cockroach it seems can survive the bomb blast of a nuclear bomb. Even so, still when you see a cockroach you might turn your head. It is always something, that influences a judgement and sadly it is not always something that is fair. As you mentioned, decision been biased due to close relationship – past or present, someone you want to please for example your bread and butter provider and cronies.
C’est la vie!
Hiya Ammoontie....that must be something that has been brewing or 'brewed' & 'cooked' but whatever it is.....I wish that you would not harbour any ill feelings and let them taste their own medicine someday soon.
Chin up my friend!
Hi anon,
Well said...I know it is never easy to be in that position. Unless the dividing line is clear, there will surely be an unsatisfied party. The answer is I guess...just look at the "fair" side..
c'est la vie...
hi Shionge,
Its like a hot cup of coffee...brewing..it is hot while it lasts...and someday...things will just be forgotten.
Thanks..I'll be fine my dear.
Hi Yee Piao,
Thanks for dropping by..you are most welcome. And of course we can exchange links...!
Am looking forward to your future visits.
Post a Comment