"Dont let a person become a priority in your life, when you are just an
option in their life"
I read this quote from one of my friend's blog, and it got me thinking and looking back at my life.
There had been occassion when I had put certain people as my priority in life, only to have found out the hard way in the end that I was only an option. Or rather to put it bluntly " You are there for the moment, before I met someone else, or before my mother arranged for my life partner"
"You will know it, when someone is ready to cut my neck"
I guess by now his throat must have been slashed and blood oozing out his larynx, since he went missing and disappeared into the desert storm without a word. A real coward I should say.
Some of us, being very nice or very naive, just couldnt help it, trying to do everything for that person, or being in the position who give and give without taking, until that special person walks away from their lives.
Sometimes it would take ages for the wound to heal and the hurt to disappear.
When we are not in love with that person, we could think straight, but when we are in love... all hells break lose..!
8 comments:
Hiya Pal..which reminds me really if he is not so into you...you can forget about him. Yes so so true....don't let others dictate our lives...hope you find someone special soon.
Hi shionge,
Such person is really not worth knowing actually. But it makes a good blog material !
* Enya and Kenny G
* John Grishams
???
Me too
Hi!!
...anyway the flowers for EB...make me write this comment to you...
It is really tough when someone walks away...but such is LIFE..and we are here to learn our lessons and MOVE ON...
The place you live is so serene, BTW.
Peace to you.
I really liked your New Year post with all those bears!!
http://ammoontie.blogspot.com/2006/12/auld-lang-syne-remembering-eb.html
Hi anonymous,
I have always enjoyed listening to Enya and Kenny G.
Glad that you liked my post for the new year and those bears are cute ! But its the messages thats wonderful.
I had plenty of lessons in life. TIME has made me moved on.
Take care..and enjoy life to the fullest..!
hi ammontie....ah don't u just hate that! such a person is not worthy to be your friend.
i got a new camera :) i'm going to spend more time with my camera (i hope) so i wouldn't be bothered by losers...hahaha
take care!
Hi dalicia,
I have an idiotproofcamera that lets me just shoot...
Hvae fun with your cam and take care.
people come and go
only those who are worthy of being with you stick along :D
Hi GrayFox,
yes true to certain extent...but there are some parasites who are stuck for life as well..!
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